Why best-selling book writer Jackie Collins kept her breast cancer a secret for years
Best-selling steamy-book author Jackie Collins may have given away one of her best stories.
Or, at least, one of her longest held secrets.
Only
days before she died last month, Collins was interviewed by Elizabeth Leonard of People magazine for a series of articles in which she revealed, for the first time publicly, her longstanding breast cancer diagnosis
and impending death.
She
said, from her Beverly Hills home, that she wanted on her gravestone the
following: "She gave a great deal of people a great deal of pleasure."
That
pleasure took the form of what severe critics called filthy or sexy trash, and more charitable detractors called cliché-riddled potboilers (defined in her case as melodramatic novels
about Hollywood, celebrities and their glamorous lives that may have been written expressly to make
money rather than for artistic purposes).
Collins' father, Joe, despite expressing pride in her accomplishments, told her he
believed her books were pornographic.
Jackie (left) and Joan Collins |
Jackie said that she'd protected her sister because "she's very positive and very social but I'm not sure how strong she is."
When Jackie died, Joan
told People she was "completely devastated" by having lost her
"best friend."
Jackie had informed her three adult daughters — Tracy, Tiffany and Rory — but only after Rory, too, was diagnosed with breast cancer.
She told only them, however, because "I didn't want to be on the front of the 'Enquirer' with two weeks to live. And I didn't want people's sympathy. I think sympathy can weaken you. I don't live my life that way. I like to be in control and so I took control of the situation."
She told only them, however, because "I didn't want to be on the front of the 'Enquirer' with two weeks to live. And I didn't want people's sympathy. I think sympathy can weaken you. I don't live my life that way. I like to be in control and so I took control of the situation."
She
also told People she'd had to deal with losing her mother to breast cancer, her
husband to prostate cancer and a fiancé to lung cancer, "and I did not want to put pressure on everybody in the family. So I
happily, happily went day by day."
She
had only one regret about the way she handled the situation, noting that she'd
written five books since her initial diagnosis.
Over
a period of four decades, she'd sold more than five million copies of her "naughty narratives" — 32 best-sellers in all — throughout
the world.
At
her death, she reportedly was still writing — and working on her autobiography.
The one regret? She
admitted she'd delayed seeing a doctor for two years after being aware of a
lump in her breast.
Why
the wait? Because she was "completely doctor-phobic" and believed,
erroneously, that the tumor was benign.
In truth, it had metastasized to her bones.
In truth, it had metastasized to her bones.
Her
disclosure at the end, she said, was intended to prod women into getting regular checkups
and to save lives. "Always get it checked," she told People,
"And the sooner the better. That is the best advice I can give."
"I know we're all told to do it," she added, "but some of us are too stupid, and I was one of them."
In my book, "Rollercoaster: How a man can survive his partner's breastcancer," I, Woody Weingarten, detail how others deal with the diagnosis — some want everyone to know what's going on, some want no one to know.
"I know we're all told to do it," she added, "but some of us are too stupid, and I was one of them."
In my book, "Rollercoaster: How a man can survive his partner's breastcancer," I, Woody Weingarten, detail how others deal with the diagnosis — some want everyone to know what's going on, some want no one to know.
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